tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-505376161936135875.post2075057486555224046..comments2010-03-23T23:50:58.636-03:00Comments on Enigma Taco: Wuv, twue wuv*Tacohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04439811287345709841noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-505376161936135875.post-29889741098246826082008-08-27T19:28:00.000-03:002008-08-27T19:28:00.000-03:00I am sorry that you all have experienced what you ...I am sorry that you all have experienced what you have and have evidentially lost faith in marriage. I for one know several couples that have been faithful to one another and remain happily married after many years. One couple in particular just renewed their vows for their 50th anniversary. Some friends of mine with a much shorter venture into their marriage; yet, still happy and loyal to one another. <BR/><BR/>I hope that helps a least a little in restoring a bit of faith. <BR/><BR/>My personal perception is that many in our society want perfection and they want it now. Well first of all we all know there is not perfect partner so EVERY relationship is going to be a constant battle and hard work. If they were easy would we not become stagnant? Another thing is the lack of patience. If there is an issue in the relationship; both individuals have to take time out of their life to devote to making positive changes to address the issue. <BR/><BR/>Sorry I will stop babbling now!ImNoBetterThanUhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16696370663914005610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-505376161936135875.post-8777809681041927742008-08-11T22:28:00.000-03:002008-08-11T22:28:00.000-03:00rachel: I don't know if we're meant to, but I real...rachel: I don't know if we're meant to, but I really want that sort of bond with someone else. Maybe.<BR/><BR/>dawn: I meant to include that in the post! So many married men have hit on me and my friends. I would assume that it happens on the other side as well, but married women don't tend to find me attractive. :-)Tacohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04439811287345709841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-505376161936135875.post-89356372593109929222008-08-11T21:41:00.000-03:002008-08-11T21:41:00.000-03:00One of the biggest shocks to me after getting divo...One of the biggest shocks to me after getting divorced was the number of married men who came on to me. And even more surprising, it wasn't the Joe Macho types, it was the milquetoasts... the soft spoken, seemingly modest, pillar of the community, "good" husband/dad types who seemed to think some extracurricular gettin' jiggy wit' it would be just the ticket. 'Cause they're nice guys, y'know? How bad could anything they want to do be?<BR/><BR/>I don't see me ever remarrying, but if I ever do, it will be with a huge dose of cynicism and I can't decide if that's a good or a bad thing.WrathofDawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06631918111665596235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-505376161936135875.post-90502208140922554082008-08-10T00:01:00.000-03:002008-08-10T00:01:00.000-03:00Yeah, that was the first thought for me, too. If ...Yeah, that was the first thought for me, too. If these people---who seemingly have so much love and respect for each other---can go through an affair, is anyone safe?<BR/><BR/>I just don't know if we are meant to be with one person for the rest of our lives. Heck it only took me a couple of years to get complacent...can't imagine being with someone for 20 or 30 years.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com